The 3 Key questions: What am I going to focus on?
What does it mean?
What am I going to do?
2 Invisible Forces shape your life:
State - model of the world (filter) (shaping us)
What's your target, what are your after? not desire or goal
(unfulfilling) it's needs
your map, your belief systems - how do you get those needs
the fuel you pick
6 Human Needs:
EVERY HUMAN IS ABLE TO MEET THE 4 NEEDS OF PERSONALITY: 1. certainty
2. uncertainty (variety, surprise - we love surprises we want, ones we
don't want we call problems)
3. significance (important, special, unique - more money, spirituality,
tattoes earrings, violence)
4. connection/love (love's too scary for most)
NEEDS OF SPIRIT (FEW HUMANS MEET)
5. must grow
6. contribute beyond ourselves - giving, not about ME about WE
Your lead system tilts you in a different direction.
The second piece is the map
What's controlling you: your needs,
GIVE: that's what will fill you up
UNDERSTAND, - don't just understand BUT APPRECIATE - What's
driving other people?
Zen tells us there is A place for everything, everything in it's place